Am I going WrOnG

Someone had correctly said. Women can make you achive whatever you want, and at the same time she can distroy as well. It is you who have to take a decision where you have to stop and whome you have to take ahead.  

At this stage there is a women in my life as well. I'm not looking at her as my love, and I made it clear to her also. But at the same time we are not just friends. We had been physical with each other. We became physical with eachother. We did sex as a friends. It happens out of attraction. 

Though I'm saying that I'm not in love with her but I think she is. I think she is just waiting for me to sey het I love you. If I express my love to her, definitely she will accept it.

It is also not like that I'm just physically attracting towards her, but there r some emotional feelings also. But I can't call it as love. 

Because of all these I'm getting distracted from my problems, from my goal, from my carrier, from the things which r really importent to me at this point of time.  Im leaving my current job and have to look for other but I'm not making any moves towards it. The thing is she is pushing me to do that. But I'm not doing it. And here I think I'm going WrOnG. I don't know being in touch with her I'm doing right or I'm making mistake. I really don't know.